How It Works

A considered path from first conversation to married life.

A considered path from first conversation to married life.

From your first conversation to married life.

From your first conversation to married life.

Japanese matchmaking follows a structured path, but every relationship moves at its own pace.

Japanese matchmaking follows a structured path, but every relationship moves at its own pace.

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Free Consultation

Free Consultation

Contact Clarence via LINE, Instagram DM, email, or the contact form. We explain the service, answer your questions, and discuss what you are looking for.

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Membership & Profile Creation

Membership & Profile Creation

After you understand the services, fees, and policies, we complete enrollment and create your matchmaking profile.

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Marriage Readiness Assessment

Marriage Readiness Assessment

Complete Clarence’s diagnostic assessment and use the 50+ relationship and marriage-skills lessons to prepare for the matchmaking journey.

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Partner Search & Omiai

Partner Search & Omiai

Search the IBJ / ATOMOS network and receive introductions from Clarence. When both sides are interested, we arrange an omiai and support scheduling, location, and preparation.

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Dating

Dating

05A Trial Dating / Kari-kosai

05A Trial Dating / Kari-kosai

A non-exclusive stage after a successful omiai

Meet and communicate to explore compatibility

You may continue meeting other potential partners

Clarence provides communication and dating support as needed

05B Exclusive Dating / Shinken-kosai

05B Exclusive Dating / Shinken-kosai

Both people agree to focus exclusively on each other

Other introductions and matchmaking activity pause

Conversations move toward marriage: lifestyle, location, finances, family, career, children, and future planning

Clarence provides deeper relationship and cross-cultural guidance

Throughout dating, Clarence also helps couples navigate cross-cultural communication, customs, family expectations, and the practical conversations that shape a future together.

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Marriage & Beyond

Marriage & Beyond

Once both partners decide to marry, Clarence supports the transition toward marriage and can continue helping with post-marriage planning and relevant international-marriage support.